Back in the crap ol’ days of truthinpain.blogspot.com in which I fought with fanatics, “violet” said something. That something was this:
Sada
when you “grow up” you will realize that a conversation is between people, not just one person talking.
You want to be heard?
Do your homework, read every word in my blog and other anti’s and come back and apologize for being rude and ignorant.
~**Violet Leaves**~ | Homepage | 06.03.07 – 2:04 pm | #
My reply was please “go fuck yourself with a bloody spoon you piece of shit” So y’know what? I went all the way to the beginning of her blog and started reading (instead of trying to go backwards, which I did actually try to do…seriously!) Yeah…
Oh good job,yes, take the advice of fanatics, Sada, go on well, take the advice!
Look, before I used to group pedophiles and child molesters together, I’ll admit it, but during all the Strikethrough’07 and Fandom vs. Fanatics mess, I decided ‘let’s look up the real definitions’. And after seeing people with the ‘trigger words’ in their interests being, well, discriminated against, and then to go and try to defend fandom, only to be slandered with the name ‘pedophile’ (which is not good to be called in today’s close-minded world) the little voice in my brain said, “Hey…KT, you and I both know that, while we may not agree with lust for children, it’s not right for innocent people who just happen to have these desires be grouped with those who act on desires and hurt others. That sort of descrimination hurts everyone.” So now, I say “If someone wants to lust over anything, hell, let it BE! If they are not hurting anybody or themselves or if they are not in danger of hurting anybody or themselves, sit down, shut up, and leave them the fuck ALONE!”
But, sadly, in this exploration of her blog, she groups pedophiles with the child-molestors constantly. Funny thing is, she even states that if you think wishing suicide on a pedophile is cruel, “then you must be a molesting pedophile” [post on September 23, 3006.] Even sadder is the fact that I started laughing at some of the things she wrote. I’m sorry but…it’s one of those laughs that make you feel really, really, really bad, like shitty piss-dirt bad, because this person was fucking abused and you should not laugh at their world views, but at the same time, it’s like, “dude, WHAT!?!”
But I laughed. I should feel ashamed, I seriously should, but…this just…I can’t describe. It’s like…religious fanatacism at its…best? worst? I mean, there is seriously no fact behind any of this…demons are religious and mythological. Not factual.
“Being a pedophile is NOT I repeat NOT a sexual orientation. It is being demon possessed and willing to ruin a childs’ life for their sexual desires.” [September 22, 2006 6:50 PM]
“Pedophiles are demons from hell…” [September 22, 2006 1:32 PM]
And she calls me ignorant….I’d like to know what religion she is. Obviously she’s Christian but…Damn.
I don’t like to link, but I’ll give the URL because this….just makes no sense. Please somebody clarify. [ http://truthinpain.blogspot.com/2006/09/what-is-difference.html ] So, according to that post, it’s okay if a heterosexual or homosexual person rapes his/her attraction because ohnoes the rapists aren’t immoral, no not at all, they aren’t “selfish”, no they care, they fucking care about the person they rape. Now, I’m not saying that child molestation is okay, no way in hell, but talking like no, the only crime that’s selfish, immoral, and consciously planned with repercussions for the victim is child molestation. Rape? Pfft, nah, that’s alll for the good of the victim, they’ve no repercussions, naw, don’t you think on it. Somebody tell me if they got the same message from that post, or if it’s just me.
Murder has repercussions: there’s a fucking BODY. Rape has repercussions: there’s the possbility of STDs, trauma, possibility of pregnancies, and sometimes injury or even death if it was violent. Hell, robbing a business has repercussions: loss of money, possible paranoia/trauma towards individuals at business, violence if it gets out of hand. Those three acts are all immoral/unethical, all conscious in some way or the other*, and all of them have repercussions.
I just…urgh, shit like this just….”If your actual lust was motivated out of love you would stop lusting all together” [September 22, 2006 1:32 PM.] Okay, I say, let people fucking lust if they want to lust, they aren’t hurting others if they partake in a little fantasy in their minds once in a wee while. Catholicism says masturbation is a sin, as many are quick to quote, but those many forget the part where the Catechism of the Catholic Church also states that under certain circumstances, the gravity of the sin can be minimized and sometimes even wiped out altogether. That means, fanatics, that God doesn’t want people to bottle up their desires and feelings to the point where they snap and go batshit crazy**.
If everyone bottled up desires of anger or lust or envy or whatever, when those people snap, all hell breaks lose. If I didn’t curse or rant everyday but instead I bottled up all my anger, I’d have snapped a long time ago and it wouldn’t have been pretty. This is why I made this post: to let lose some frustration and anger at what I think is fanatacism that can and does hurt more than it does good. If a pedophile, one who likes children, not necessarily molests children (get it right), wants to fantasize once in awhile about having sex with a child, let them fantasize goddamit! They wanna masturbate to a fantasy about a nonexistant child, fucking let them! Then maybe (just maybe) they can get rid of that tension of jackass fanatics bitching about ‘lust is a no-no!’ and get on with their life, go to work, hang with their guys/girls, maybe even play boardgames with their children if they so chose to have some. It’s a desire.
Desires don’t make you monsters; choices do.
*assuming the murder is actual murder not ‘omg they came outta nowhere and I couldn’t stop the car fast enough!’ accidental deaths
** example: Frollo (sorry but it’s true.)
*** man my icon’s contradictory
littlegirl saved 
You always have a choice. There is no such thing as not having a choice really.
Interesting read, and this…Violet seems to have a grudge against you and no real arguments, as far as I’ve seen above.
Some people just don’t get it, or refuse to change their opinions…*sigh*